tadpole215
05-06-2003, 12:33 PM
I was talking to my boss about the marriage thing and he had a good point.
Part of the problem with marriages in the Teams starts with the seperation issue.
When you are gone 9+ months out of the year, you get used to doing your own thing.
For example going out to have beer. Well when you get back home there are tough times during the transition back into the family lifestyle. You might get a "what do you mean going out for a beer?" Both sides need to be patient and transistion slowly. It can be hard to be gone for so long being surrounded by teststosterone (sp?) driven men, and then suddenly be changing diapers.
Enough on all of this. These post should be happy, I did not mean to set a low tone for all this chicken pecking! LOL
as Bill and Ted would say: "be excellent to eachother....."
SEAL Wives, DE-**** and HOLSTER!!!!!! *can I get a hug?
-clark (tadpole215)
Part of the problem with marriages in the Teams starts with the seperation issue.
When you are gone 9+ months out of the year, you get used to doing your own thing.
For example going out to have beer. Well when you get back home there are tough times during the transition back into the family lifestyle. You might get a "what do you mean going out for a beer?" Both sides need to be patient and transistion slowly. It can be hard to be gone for so long being surrounded by teststosterone (sp?) driven men, and then suddenly be changing diapers.
Enough on all of this. These post should be happy, I did not mean to set a low tone for all this chicken pecking! LOL
as Bill and Ted would say: "be excellent to eachother....."
SEAL Wives, DE-**** and HOLSTER!!!!!! *can I get a hug?
-clark (tadpole215)